Let's talk about Enthusiasm and the Rookie Real Estate Agent.
Without it, you're toast. You're going to work real hard the next several weeks, months and years. Your emotions and ego are going to take a real beating and you'll have days where you can't believe you volunteered for this crap. But you'll also have days where you're bouncing off the clouds and telling everyone you know how much you love your job. It's those days that make it all worthwhile. And don't worry, the good days will outnumber the bad, as long as your enthusiasm stays intact.
But in order to maintain the enthusiasm you're going to need to make it to your second year, you need to understand what is about to happen to you and prepare the best you can. Here are some questions to ask yourself:
- Is selling real estate your primary job? Or are you squeezing it in around your "real" job? (read more)
- Is your family prepared for the realities of your new career? Are they supportive? (read more)
- Are you willing and able to "waste" your time with people who probably won't lead you to a paycheck anytime soon? (read more)
- Are you willing to work 7 days a week, when and if necessary?
If the answers to these questions is mostly "No, not really" then you're going to struggle keeping up your enthusiasm. Because all four of these questions need to be answered with a strong YES in order for you to really enjoy your new career. Otherwise, you'll quickly resent it, be miserable, and egads, you might even fail. I'd hate to see that happen to you!

Copyright Jennifer Allan 2007
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Hi Jennifer - You definitely HAVE to have enthusiasm to survive in this business! Nobody ever tells you how emotional this business can be.
I am finishing my first year and survived! Looking forward to many more...I love real estate! Just saw your Daily sanity saver and Confidence builders...think I'm signing up!
Agreed! Enthusiasm is critical in just about any sales related endeavor. Enthusiasm can be subtle or outrageously blatant. To me, It seems that more subtle the enthusiasm, the better. Optimism, Enthusiasm and Confidence. After almost 30 years as a Broker, the good days by far outnumbered the bad. Every day is a new adventure!
Sunny Isles Beach, Florida
It is amazing how little people know about a very public business that everyone seems to think they can do with ease until they get a license and reality slaps then in the kisser!
Enthusiasm and energy are the key ingredients and maybe one more....focus. If you do not focus your energy and enthusiasm you will be like the little duck at the fair...people shooting at it while it turns first in one direction then the other without ever going anywhere and with little results. Very nice post.
J-Dawg - wonderful points. I concur. Well, almost. I think you left one off. If you are too damn dumb to realize that spinning your wheels is a good thing and you spend a good part of twelve months attempting to master any of the several systems out there, you will find yourself in your second year.
Although some folks question whether or not you are smart enough to come in out of the rain....dropping in here, reading and sharing and partaking in the active rain will keep your juices flowing (or at least give you a taste of a community of your peers).
Just don't scare them off. We need new blood, new ideas and new ways of seeing old problems.
You are so right.. .... You have to put your heart and soul in you work so that you can make it to the end
I'm midway through my first year and I'll be honest... there have been days when I've thought this is just not worth it. But then there are those days like Jennifer talks about... days that I couldn't be happier with what I'm doing. And there have absolutely been more good days than bad. The lady crying after a closing because she's so happy I sold her house makes me forget all about the buyer who just backed out on me the deal before for no apparent reason.
Now that I've got a taste of this I don't think I could give it up. For about the past 8 years I've been searching for what I'm meant to do. I have finally found it. Nothing could make me more enthusiastic. My passion and drive will get me through my first year... then I'll let my skill take over.
good post! Enthusiasm and a good attitude will take people far in any profession.
"If you think you can or you can't you are right" - Henry Ford Quote.
Great post...love your insight. Taking on my own business rather running someone elses has certainly had a ton of challenges. I love the challenges because they make me think...what am I doing right, what am I doing wrong, what can I do differently. When you are running it for someone else, essentially you are told all of those things (Usually with a Policy and Procedure manual to back it up).
Yes, I just put my kids to bed and I'm in the Rain rather than doing something else, but you just never know where you might find the next piece of advice that could turn it all around. I'm into slow and steady wins the race and learning from my faults...but a little windfall every once and a while wouldn't hurt, either. But, all in all, my family comes first...especially my children. They are only young once and you don't get a chance to do it over. I'd rather not deal with people that don't understand or respect that.
Jennifer,
I can tell by your photo that you exude enthusiasm. Best of luck to you!
A link to this post is being sent to everyone in my office.
Isn't it strange which blogs get featured? I wrote this one in about 5 minutes, actually as an introduction to a newsletter I was working on. But... cool!!!
Thanks for the ENTHUSIASTIC commentary! I'm so glad there are so many among us who really do love our jobs. It makes a huge difference, doesn't it? Selling real estate can be a ton of fun if you just approach it with a good attitude.
Go, Us!
I agree with almost everything that you've said except the part about working 7 days a week. Too many people get into the business and go balls out until they burn out. No, it's not a 20 hour a week job, but nobody can give 110% indefinitely. Schedule yourself in a reasonable fashion and don't be afraid to take care of yourself in the process!
Bob Mitchell
ValueList Real Estate Services, Inc.
We were all rookies once so I root for them as they come into our office. But it's hard. Especially for the ones with no business background. Only having had jobs in the past does not prepare you for self-employment. They are two different animals.
That said, people succeed everyday. Especially in this market.
Some newbies are great to work with.....
And those would be the ones who are eager/energetic/enthusiastic. But are NOT afraid to say: "I don't know. But I know who does. I will get back to you within the hour"
Jennifer...
I love this. I really do. These are questions that many Rookies never ask themselves. As the Owner of a Real Estate Company there is one thing I would add to this list...
Are your finances solid enough to go many months without a paycheck? Rookies don't seem to take that into consideration.
Okay. Now I want to speak personally to you. Your enthusiasm is contagious. Many Rookies lack that kind of enthusiasm. This is the stuff that creates a successful salesperson. I wish you the best of luck in everything that you do. It's obvious to me that you "get it" :)
TLW...ROAR!
Great post- I think this should be given prior to signing up for your 1st real estate class. Real Estate is a lot of Smoke and Mirrors. You will fall a lot its just the ones who get back up that are successful.
Jennifer,
I am about a quarter through my first year and I love it! I just hope that things go well and that I am able to bring to fruition all the good possibilities I feel this career brings to light. Thank you for the post.
Jennifer,
All good questions for a tough Career!!!!!!
Tom Weiss
I agree that the good days will outnumber the bad but it really takes a lot to equal a bad day for me.
I had a couple that I had spent about 40 hours with showing homes, had a signed buyer agency agreement, and the couple finds an unrepresented seller on their own and buy that home while hiring an attorney to cancel the contract that they had to purchase a home through me that the seller had already accepted but had not returned the contract to their agent. The guy gave me a $700 check for my time and I promptly returned it.
The day that happened was not even close to being a bad day for me. I can't say the same was true for my wife.
Rob
Connie - you GET it! Keep up the good work and I promise it will pay off. In the meantime, you couldn't pay for experience like this...
TLW - I'm honored by your comment. And I agree with your suggestion. Selling real estate is a lot more fun (and productive) when you aren't broke and desperate.
Bob - regardinig working 7 days a week... I don't think you have to work that much, what I mean is that you are willing to cause you're so excited and having so much fun!
I'm just now now into my 2nd month, and there are days the enthusiasm wanes. Having the support of family and friends (if you HAVE family and friends...lol) is vital! It's very hard to focus on all we need to learn without it.
Thanks for another great post, Jennifer. Sorry it took me this long to read it -- I've been busy! And that's a GREAT THING!!
Here's some simple training for Rookies:
You Tube Video - 1 and 1 Program for Rookie Agents